9 types of male sexual behavior

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Only 8 percent of men say that the sight of a beautiful woman does not excite them at all. But 36 percent of women, that is 4.5 times more, say that at the sight of a beautiful man they do not feel the slightest sexual arousal. Thus, the physical appearance of women has on a man much more influence than the appearance of men to women. Sexual behavior of men has its own classification, which helps to understand whether a man is suitable for life together or not.

Why has evolution made men more sexually active?

Men, of course, react not only to the way a woman looks, to the way she moves. They are also more inclined than women to interpret various social signals as sexual. These cues include the distance between sitters, the number of glances exchanged, non-erotic touching, and the like. Psychologists attribute this behavior of men to their role as “bearers of the idea of sex” in society, while women are assigned the traditional role of “keepers of the home. And this distribution of roles has hardly changed to this day.

9 types of male sexual behavior

Anthropologist Donald Simon proves that the process of natural selection has largely maximized men’s productive capabilities and seems to have encouraged them to seek out different mates.

The researcher writes that in ancient times, the male species that could impregnate more women and thereby pass on his genes survived. It was the other way around for women. Taking care of the continuation of the species, they preserved their eggs for the strongest men. Therefore, their promiscuity was much less than that of men.

Nowadays, a man’s sexual success is a reliable basis for his business success. To assert himself, a man must prove that he can win women’s hearts. Therefore, most men strive to be sexually indefatigable.

Why do guys disappear after sex?

Sexuality is especially strong in young men. Blood plays, more purely physical attraction. The mistake many girls make is that they mistake the usual purely sexual desire of young men for true love. No, I don’t mean to offend those guys who do get swooned over by a lucid feeling. Sometimes they have a sexual-erotic split personality. The young lover reverently worships his chosen one, afraid of offending her with a display of carnal desires. And they are strong. Then seek the favor of a more “available” girl with whom you can get busy in bed.

For some guys, the desire to achieve a goal leads to the use of different means. They ask, and swear, and promise. But to achieve, they forget what they said. Blaming the conquered girl in coldness and inexperience, leave her and go in search of another. Here are typical statements on this subject:

“In our age and these days, love is very rare. In my opinion, there is carnal love first. I, for instance, pay more attention to a girl’s legs…”

or

“14-17 is the age when you fall in love with someone all the time. Maybe at 20 high feelings will come, but now, at 17, it’s a pretty simple thing. You meet a girl, go out with her for a while. Went to a movie or a disco. Got what you wanted from her… And then you can have another one.

There are, there are completely different people. But they are sadly in the minority. That’s why it was especially touching to see at the anniversary of our school, which you and I graduated from, married couples who found their love and destiny when they were students. And it’s not just among our graduates, of course.

9 types of male sexual behavior

Let’s not shed any tears. Especially since today’s girls have a very different attitude toward sex than their grandmothers did. And even the “canaries,” as young people call brides of strict rules, will hardly have only one man on their life path. If only because it is difficult to immediately meet a man with whom you can live your whole life. And who wants the same thing. And, there are times when you just have to switch partners.

2 classic sexual types of men

Among the many sexual types of men there are two classic types about which it can be said that no woman will change them.

They are Don Juan and Casanova. Many do not see a difference between them, calling the word “womanizer”, yes, both are insidious tempter of female virtue, irresistible seducer, tireless seeker of new beautiful love. There is, however, a difference. If only in the fact that Giovanni Giacomo Casanova was a real man who lived from 1725 to 1798, and Don Giovanni is an image created by a medieval legend, and then repeatedly sung by many writers, poets and composers. The secret of winning women’s hearts was in their irresistible appearance and elegance, the ability to woo and achieve the location of the beautiful ladies. But Don Juan tended to be a little rougher than the refined Casanova, he was much less interested in the personality of his partner. More important was his own satisfaction. He flaunted himself.

9 types of male sexual behavior

Casanova knew how to make a woman understand that she was the beautiful, wonderful, charming, and so on, that is, he treated women not only as sexual objects, but also as individuals. They say that for his continuous love victories Casanova usually found a pretty woman in some unpleasant situation from which he himself bailed her out. Grateful rewarded him in bed. Becoming a friend, he treated the woman warmly and, unlike Don Juan, who was completely indifferent to the fate of a recent passerby, often kept warm relations with his partners after the termination of intimate relations.

Have women always scolded men of this type? No. First, the smart ones understand that almost all men go through this stage in their lives, when self-assertion goes in sex as well: constant change of partners, setting “records”. But by the age of thirty (sometimes even earlier) this passion comes to an end – men have other areas of self-assertion. And in their personal lives, they are already looking for stability, long-term trust. But there are those who permanently maintain a “Don Juan complex. They are not able to build a long-term relationship with a woman. Knowing this, you should not be offended.

9 types of male sexual behavior

Secondly, women have always lacked male attention. And now, especially, a woman who has been longing for a real man can enthusiastically accept the ardor, energy, admiration for her beauty on the part of a brilliant cavalier. Generous lover can ignite the fire in the heart, torn by the hardships of life, and return faith in yourself. For the happiness of knowing the bright moments a woman can forgive the soon disappearance of the giver. She will be left with the memory: “it was in my life …”. And thirdly, the woman herself is not always set up for a long-term relationship.

Donjouans are not always sexual giants, and their technique may be far from perfect. But the great power of the publicity they and others create gives them a special attraction to women’s hearts. Even if a small mishap happens, neither he nor she will talk about it. Will be afraid of each for his reputation. A woman doesn’t want to look frigid either. And then who doesn’t?

It is wrong to assume that any man is “always ready. Far from it. Many factors can affect their delicate sexual organization. Fatigue, for example. Or insecurity, which is often caused by improper partner behavior. Most of all, men are sexually insecure woman who is constantly telling them what to do in bed. They have a hard time with the women who pretend to be indifferent to sex. They also risk not liking those who passively expect him to do everything himself, forgetting that there is a man waiting for affection too.

Sexual perversions

Speaking of sex, there is another issue that cannot be avoided. Sexual perversions. A normal person starts with innocent kisses and timid caresses, which after a while becomes not enough. Overcoming timidity, he will find his way to the fullest satisfaction of the love passion. The normal way. And if it isn’t? I don’t want to scare you, but life isn’t all “first class and sweet.” There are darker sides as well. I won’t go into the details. Let there be a brief medical summary. So, some forms of perversion:

9 types of male sexual behavior

  • Homosexuality is attraction to persons of one’s own sex. A distinction is made between masculinity (pederasty), the attraction of men to men, and lesbianism, the attraction of women to women.
  • Pedophilia – attraction to children.
  • Necrophilia – attraction to corpses.
  • Sodomy – attraction to animals.
  • Scopophilia – secretly peeking at the act of sexual intercourse, defecation, or urination in order to achieve sexual arousal.
  • Transvestism – sexual gratification by dressing up in clothes of the opposite sex.
  • Pygmalionism-the attraction to statues.
  • Exhibitionism – sexual satisfaction resulting from exposing one’s genitals in the presence of the other sex.
  • Narcissism – falling in love with oneself.
  • Sadism (erotic tyrannism) – a combination of sexual intercourse with inflicting physical torment on the object of sexual desire, up to brutal torture and even murder.
  • Masochism is sexual gratification achieved by subjecting oneself to various mockery and torture by the object of one’s passion.

Sexual perversions are not genetically inherited and cannot be inherited. Often they are caused by various nervous diseases. But they can be a consequence of an immoral upbringing and ordinary promiscuity. According to doctors, most people who suffer from such disorders can be cured. The success of treatment depends above all on how much the patient himself wants this. However, many are not at all willing to get rid of their “sexual mischief” and “original aspirations”. One such “prankster” was the terrible maniac killer Chikatilo. This, of course, is outlawed. However, let the more “moderate” ones be away from us, away from you, too. After all, if the use of force is necessary for sexual release, it is one step away from murder. That’s why you have to be choosy about dating. And don’t rush with …

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Автор Елизавета Татарчук

Эксперт женского мышления. Училась в РГУ им. С. А. Есенина на факультете психологии. Хочу открыть свой бесплатный кабинет психологической поддержки.

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