8 questions to find out if you really love him. Answer honestly

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The best test to find out if you really love him. Answer eight important questions honestly

Psychologists guarantee that after them it will be clear whether to take further action. At first glance, it may seem like everything is fine, and it’s great that you have someone at all. But inside is full of doubts. How do you solve this problem?

They say that when a partner is true love, it just makes sense. You don’t have to think about it. But experts say the following 8 questions will help you figure out if the relationship is worth going on. Are you ready for the moment of truth?

№1. Can you be yourself in a relationship?

The most important thing in a relationship is not to hide your true self. What does this mean in practice? You’re not afraid to express your views, open up or talk about your passions for fear of criticism. You don’t have to agree on everything, but if you pretend to be someone you’re not just to look good in front of the other person, how can you talk about a mature relationship? It doesn’t make sense.

№2. Is it easy to compromise?

It is well known that compromise is the foundation of a strong relationship. But if you are the only one who is willing to compromise, you should think about whether it is selfish on the part of your partner.

№3. What does conflict look like between you?

Sometimes fighting is unavoidable and is a healthy way to relieve tension between two people. Look next time what your conflict looks like–are you trying to achieve a common goal, improve your behavior, or are you hurting each other and only you keep giving in?

№4. Do you feel safe in your relationship?

Relationships are about feeling comfortable with each other. It feels like home. That doesn’t mean you should expect your prince to rescue you from any situation, because we are all responsible for ourselves. But just think about whether you feel calm and confident with your boyfriend and aren’t afraid of his unexpected reactions.

№5. How do you deal with problems?

A relationship is not just a romantic idyll, because difficulties arise over time. It all depends on how you handle them. Is your partner hiding and afraid to have a serious conversation? Or is he or she brave enough to deal with the problems that stand in the way of your happiness? Staying silent and pretending the problem doesn’t exist is childish behavior that you can’t build anything on.

№6. What if a better option comes along?

Are you in a secure relationship, but you don’t feel completely satisfied and constantly fantasize in your mind about what your ideal relationship could look like? To begin with, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. And the best test of whether you really love him is what you would do if a better option came on the horizon. If it’s not about him, why are you still in it?

№7. Are there more pros or cons?

It’s not about counting the pros and cons, or rationalizing or explaining your partner’s outbursts, but simply, are you more likely to feel joy during the day because of him or her, or does the relationship bring you more problems and anxiety? Don’t factor in connections with friends or general affairs. Focus only on your emotions and feelings.

№8. Are you really happy every day?

Now seriously, do you really feel happy with him? Are you happy to be together every day? Do you give him affection and attention and do you know that it makes sense and you want to develop it?

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Автор Елизавета Татарчук

Эксперт женского мышления. Училась в РГУ им. С. А. Есенина на факультете психологии. Хочу открыть свой бесплатный кабинет психологической поддержки.

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